"You become what you believe" - Oprah

Most people live their lives never knowing what they were put on this Earth to do.  They get tossed to and fro by what other people have in store for them, or by what other people envision them doing.  Before they know it they have just been existing in this world, unfruitful, unhappy, and then their spark is put out.  They never got to realize that their life turned out how it did only because they believed what everyone else said about them, and that became their reality.  When you are able to create your own destiny, and create your own future and reality the opposite will happen.  People will begin to believe what you believe about yourself.  The power will reside in you, and what ever you believe about yourself will become your reality.  No longer will your existence be unfruitful or unhappy, but it all starts with what you believe about yourself.